How Treating Hearing Loss Can Help Your Relationships

We all understand that communication in relationships is essential, yet many romantic partners struggle with it! People struggle to express their emotions and opinions and then get irritated because their partners do not hear them. Many individuals don't know how to interact with their partners in simple and meaningful ways. People fall short in their communication despite good intentions, and this can derail relationships. 

That's why this Valentine's Day, forget the flowers and chocolate. The best gift you can give your significant other is the gift of communication. But what happens when one person is unable to keep communicating as usual? This is what hearing loss can do to our relationships.

Hearing loss is a common medical condition that can significantly impair interaction that affects all aspects of a person's life. Nearly 1 in 8 people over the age of 12 has a degree of hearing loss in one or both ears, according to the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders. Hearing damage happens so gradually that it can go unnoticed and untreated for quite a while. This could have disastrous effects on the relationships with the people we love, as suggested by recent studies.

Can hearing loss harm our romantic relationships?

In a 2009 British survey involving 1,500 respondents, 44% said they attributed the hearing loss to issues in their relationships with friends, relatives, spouses, and partners, with 34% saying the issue had gotten so bad that relationships, including some marriages, had ended. 

Another survey from 2007 discovered that 35 percent of respondents said their relationship with their significant other was the most impaired due to hearing loss.

As hearing loss progresses, people with untreated hearing loss notice their relationships breaking down, no matter how hard their significant other tries. They talk about how their partners fail to realize how tiring hearing loss can be. Partners of those with hearing loss report frustration with having to be the ears of their spouse even as they refuse to get their hearing treated. 

The stronger the hearing ability, the stronger the relationship?

The persons with whom we spend the most time are the ones who will feel the most damage from our hearing loss. Relationships are founded on communication - not just routine conversations, but on thousands of small everyday interactions. It's easy to take for granted just how much these little moments add to our feelings of connection with the other person before hearing loss begins to make them difficult. 

Intimacy means being "in tune" with each other. Think back on your current or former relationships, and you might remember the quieter, more subtle moments as being some of the most special. There's a disconnect that can widen overtime when we can't communicate clearly with our partners and loved ones.

We can rekindle this intimacy by treating hearing loss with hearing aids. Both parties tend to report that hearing aids significantly improve the relationship.

Hearing aids and friendship and family relationships.

Untreated hearing loss can also affect our relationships with our friends and family very adversely. Many individuals with untreated hearing loss tend to socially withdraw and prefer not to partake in social activities they used to enjoy. It is simply too much to hold interactions with groups of people in loud environments when hearing loss is untreated. It can lead to anxiety, loneliness, and depression when you are at a social event and cannot hear the conversation.

Today's hearing aids are packed with technology primarily focused on promoting and enjoying interactions with groups of people, including in busy and noisy settings. Hearing aid users are more likely to engage in social events vital to keeping friendships and family relationships alive and safe.

Treatment of your hearing loss has several other advantages. Wearing hearing aids, in addition to better communication, can also lead to improvements in your mental, emotional and physical health. A correlation between hearing treatment and slowing cognitive loss is starting to be identified by researchers.

It all starts with a hearing test!

Treatment starts by making an appointment to have your hearing tested with a hearing healthcare specialist. Hearing tests are a non-invasive procedure that measures the ability to hear in both ears and diagnoses the degree and nature of any hearing loss that you might be experiencing. To schedule an appointment, contact us today!